Friday, November 8, 2019

When kids don't want to say sorry πŸ™„πŸ€

Monday, October 28, 2019

Some funny mom memes to make you smile

Motherhood is easiest hardest and the funniest thing on earth. It's all about how you take it with pinch of salt. Adding humour in the hardest role makes it easier sometime to play it with perfection. Check out some of the fun memes to make your day. Follow my Instagram to get daily dose of fun @carefreemummy (my Instagram):

Friday, October 25, 2019


Monday, October 14, 2019


The words you speak can make or break your world, the art to use the right words can take you to the top and vice-versa. Words can burn, Words can cleanse, Words can erase, and Words can etch. Words have power to destroy or heal. Your words can mend a broken soul, words have power use them to support and inspire others.
It is always better to be quiet at a moment and handle the situation rather than using words that are venom. Words have more power than atom bombs, once they are said, they can only be forgiven not forgotten. One kind word can change someone’s entire day. Words are free, it’s how you use them that may cost you.
Don’t waste words on people who deserve your silence. Sometimes the most powerful thing you can say is nothing at all. "Don't mix bad words with your bad mood. You'll have many opportunities to change a mood, but you'll never get the opportunity to replace the words you spoke."
 "Be mindful when it comes to your words. A string of some that don't mean much to you, may stick with someone else for a lifetime." -Rachel Wolchin

Sunday, October 13, 2019


Patna is definitely a worthy place to visit during Durga Puja. The whole city is decked up with lights and looks like a shining bride. The huge idols of Maa Durga are placed in big pandals everywhere on the roads. Its one of the biggest festival for the city. People get dressed up in their best attires and enjoy the festivities, lightening and the prayers. I was lucky to experience it this time and was completely mesmerized for the efforts done to make the city full of lights and life.

Unfortunately this time heavy rains have been able to weaken the spirit of Durga Puja to some extent. There is still water logging in many parts of the city and people are trying hard to come out of the loss occurred during the rains, still the city was shining like star.

"We cannot fight with nature, what and when it can show nobody knows".

One should definitely visit Patna to feel the real warmth of Durga Puja.

Wednesday, October 2, 2019


With Frozen - II releasing soon, frozen theme birthday parties are definitely a hit this year. So no surprise, my daughter is also obsessed with Elsa Queen. And she clearly demanded that her 4th birthday has to be frozen birthday. Her order is our command and we did our best to make this birthday memorable for her. I had so much fun planning this party. My focus was to make everything frozen and all went well.

So how I planned-

Elsa Birthday1. Invitation Cards- The frozen Birthday party invitation card was eye catching for everyone. It looked special and warming for the guests.

2. Frozen Dress- The most important task was to select the dress and accessories for the birthday girl 

3. Tattoo Artist - To engage the kids, we called the tattoo artist. All kids get their favorite cartoon painted on their hands.

Frozen Decor for Birthday
4. Frozen Table- So this involved lot of time and efforts. From finding the frozen table cover to frozen plates, glasses, Caps, masks,     trumpets and frozen cupcakes stand.

Frozen Decor for Birthday5. Frozen Cake- The hero of the party :)

Frozen Decor for Birthday

6. Frozen Wall- It went well as planned.

All in all the party went well as planned and it  bought the biggest smile on the princess face.



Wednesday, September 18, 2019


Every girl after being a mother would relate to this. How our mom made our life happy. She was also judged, she loose pateince, she felt worst many days but she nailed it.

What she must have felt while handling us as toddler , don't we need to know?

1. We made her cry not few times but many.

2. We made her feel vulnerable while she had the option to choose something for her.

3. We made her feel of no value while we were choosing.

4. We made her happy. Watching us sleep was the best happy moment for her.

5. We made her angry.

6. We made her forget what a quiet shower looks like πŸ€—

7. We made her forget what hot coffee taste like.

8. We never left her alone, not even in washroom.

9. She loves us more than herself.

10. She felt sad seeing us sadπŸ˜’

11. We made her life meaningful

12. We are the best thing happened to her.

13. She repeated one thing 100 times to make us understand.

Since we are moms now, we know what we have done to our moms. Our kids are taking the best revenge from us for troubling their Nani Maa.

So guys, we are not doing anything new. Our moms had already nailed it. Don't feel bad if you have a bad day with your child. They will grow perfect the way we all have grown 😍😍😍😍

Monday, September 16, 2019


Sunday, September 15, 2019


This recipe is  for Moms who are very bussy and kids who likes eating tasty treats. One of the easy recipe which is quick to cook with minimal ingredients. 

Let's note it:


1. 1 Cup Macroni Pasta

2. 4 tablespoon Ghee for cooking.

3. 1 large Onion- finely sliced

4. 3 Tamatoes- finely chopped

5. 3 tablespoon Coriander

6. Salt as per taste

7. Redchilli as per taste

8. 1/2 tablespoon turmeric

9. One tablespoon oil for boiling pasta.


1. Boil 4 cup water in  a large pan. Let the water bubble. Drop the pasta and boil for 8-10 minutes.

2. Drain the pasta and wash under running water. Spread on flat surface and toss in 1 tablespoon oil to prevent sticking.

3. Heat oil in frying pan and cook the onions till golden brown.

3. Add tamatoes, cook till becomes mashy.

4. Add spices and pasta. Stir it nicely and garnish with coriander. 

The healthy treat is ready for your kids.

Friday, September 13, 2019


Thursday, September 12, 2019


The synonym of toddler is tantrum πŸ€—. The tantrums played by these little monkeys are beyond control sometimes or I must say most of the time.

But tantrums are normal part of the child development and we as parents should know how to handle them with ease. Tantrums are the way to show they are upset and uncomfortable and they need something. So how we can stop these outbursts. Everytime we cannot fulfill their demands to make them happy.

Here comes the magic trick- the counting trick.

So what I follow is counting trick 1 to 20. And it's not like I count to ease my anger, it's a counting for the transition phase.

For instance when I take my daughter to park and after spending good time when I ask her to leave for home she starts playing tantrums like want to play more or want to go to friends house. At this time I use this trick. So I tell her I will count till 20 and we will change to other activity which is walking and going home. In this way she gets time as she demanded and also know to end the current activity quickly.

Many times she say count to 25 mumma and I do so. It helps.

At bedtime when she is fussy and don't want to sleep I do this and start counting and she quickly jumps to bed.

This takes time but once your kids understand, this trick really starts working.

Try, it may help you also.

Tuesday, September 10, 2019


Do you have a fussy eater at home? I have one and making her eat is like a tough task . This is one healthy recipe which my daughter likes a lot- WHEAT FLOUR CHOCOLATE MUFFINS. These muffins have wheat flour and are very healthy to eat.

Chocolate muffins
1 Cup is 240 ML

1. 1 Cup Wheat Flour

2. 3/4 Cup Sugar( I use brown sugar)

3. 1/2 teaspoon Baking Soda

4. 3 tablespoon Cocoa Powder

5. 1/4Cup Oil

6. 1 Cup Water

7. 1 tablespoon Vanilla Essence

8. 1/2 tablespoon Lemon Juice


1. Preheat the oven at 200 degree for 15 minutes

2. Oil the baking tray, I use muffin paper moulds so no oiling required 

3. Take wheat flour, cocoa powder baking soda together in one container- Dry Ingredients

4. Take sugar, water, oil, vanilla essence and lemon juice in other container. Mix it well- Wet Mixture

5. Mix dry ingredients with wet mixture. There should be no lumps.

6. Pour the batter in the moulds and bake for 20-25 minutes at 180 degree. Check in between. Once done check it with knife or toothpick, insert it in the muffin and it should come clean out.

The healthy breakfast is ready for your kids.

Saturday, September 7, 2019


My daughter recently started her formal school. For the first few months, it was impossible to get my daughter open up about her school. Hundred times I used to ask her the same question "How was your day" but all in vain. Why these little babies don't want to share their life easily, which we as parents urge to know. Poor us :(

I know that my baby is happy and enjoying her new life (school days) but somewhere in my eyes I always yearn to get a glimpse of that part of her life in which I don't exist. I want to know the cute little stories of the school time, how she is making friends and what she talks with her friends, how she eats food herself and so on. I sometimes pray to God to make me invisible for a day so that I can live the day seeing my child enjoying her new life. But these kids perfectly knows how to make their moms more curious by not speaking at all about their day.

So after trying hard to get my daughter open about the school time, I came up with a trick which really helps. Now I don't ask the same question to her. She willing tells me everything about her school. So how it works.

It's a meeting trick. We all three sit together at night and do a meeting. So first I start and tell about my day what I eat, what I did and so on and then husband tells about his day what he eat, which friend sat with him, how many times he go to washroom, what work he did and all the data of our day is related with like a small kid day. And then my daughter starts and full suspense story of the day finally comes out :):)

It's the easiest way to connect and communicate. Try it and you will also get to know what your little kids do when away.

Thursday, September 5, 2019


So I found this teacher some four years back. And I have never found such teacher before. This teacher is teaching  me the best lessons so far and continuing perfectly to make me more calm and happy. She is teaching me how not to loose pateince and how to cherish and value time. Why I met you so late? Where were you?

My best learnings from this esteemed figure in my life are:

1.How to be happy always- now even wiping someone's ass makes me happyπŸ˜‹. Cleaning the whole mess I am not involved in makes me happy too.

2. How to adjust in less- sleeping on edge of the bed, wow I am so adjusting now. Thanks to my teacher, she is giving me the best teachings of life.

3. Appreciate small things- now I appreciate even if someone finish a glass of water. This is the power of this teacher.

4. How to always be in guilt- going to office fills me with guilt, staying at home makes me guilty. Leave all things apart now even going to washroom shows me as guilty.

5. Be happy in your own skin- she has taught me how to embrace own skin without any parlor visit and even no shower for days. So love yourself the way you are. I tell you, she is genius as a teacher.

6. How to make your mind happy- now a 5 minutes non disturbing shower feels like a spa. This is the power of a good teacher.

7. How to be a smart eater- I eat chocolates and junk food and trust me no one knows how. All credit to my teacher for life. For everyone, I am a healthy eaterπŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—. I even have developed the skill now to stop chewing suddenly and pretend nothing is in my mouth.😜😜

So this is how a good teacher is. She is  my lovely and naughty girl. I found mine what about you?

Sunday, September 1, 2019


Public Speaking is the most fearful task for many. People loose their shit out when go public. And the same is with kids, they can feel intimidated same way as any adult can be. Without a doubt, this skill is the most demanding today. So how can we make our kids ready for it.

My 3.5 year old beautiful daughter got first position in first competition of her life. And that was so overwhelming, I have never felt so happy. Her sparkling eyes while showing me the certificate were so loveable and this memory I will cherish for life. I know she will do many participation in life but the value of everything first is beyond words.

Parents play a major role in child development and it's our responsibility to make sure how we can give them the best of life and best of skills which they will value forever.

Children can easily be mould the way you want.  They are like clay in potter's ✋. So make them the best of it.

Following simple rules can build the desired confidence amongst them to go for the public speaking platform and win the πŸ’“. Winning is not always the answer, participation is.

How this can be achieved-

1. Talk and Talk-  the basic rule, talk as much as you can and talk like having a great conversation with adults. Don't converse in kids voice. Talk and allow them to speak and listen carefully with interest. Showing interest develops confidence amongst kids and they feel the urge to share their stories.

2. Don't over correct- correct them wisely don't overdo it. Let them get free from the hesitation first and then correct them. I always try to speak in English with my girl. And how I started is translating the Hindi words to English. This gives the understanding of both the languages.

3. Appreciate them- My daughter loves being appreciated and I do that because she loves it. At the bedtime I daily tell her few lines like you speak so well and we are so proud of you keep that up. So in her sub conscious she knows that she is doing her best.

4. The word rule- pick a word and make a story of it. First you start and your kids will definitely follow you with their self made funny stories.

Make the learning fun for your lovely kids, do not burden them unnecessarily.

Wednesday, August 28, 2019

RENAULT KWID CLIMBER CAR- Make driving so easy

Monday, August 26, 2019

The Toughest Job On Earth.:):)

Saturday, August 24, 2019


Indra Market Bangkok
Indra Market BangkokOne of the famous shopping place in Bangkok is Indra Square Market. Its a best market for Indian tourists, you can buy anything here at very good reasonable price. A great market for bags, suitcases, shoes and artificial jewelry. I love the shoes collection here. It offers a variety of clothing, accessories, shoes and bags at steal prices. Play with your bargaining skills and steal the deals.

A perfect place to buy souvenirs, this market gets very busy in evening and you need a full day to stroll the complete market. There is a food court on top floor with different type of cuisines. The sales girls speak fluent hindi and make you feel home :)

Indra Market Bangkok
You can get very cute stationary stuff here. Its a fully centralized ac market so no problem in strolling the place. You will definitely end up buying lot of stuff. The market is full with Indian tourists and it gives a feel of some Indian street shopping place.  

This market must be in your Itinerary of Bangkok!

Wednesday, August 21, 2019


Everyone is busy in the house, relatives have started coming in. The full house is decorated as a new bride and why not its Sia's marriage. Sia a 24 year old beautiful girl, highly educated and topper in professional course. A girl with full of life     and melodious voice. So how her love story started- she fall for a tall handsome guy in her office, both started seeing each other and after few months of dating they decided to spend rest of their lives together. Raj is from other caste, so after some melodrama from both the sides of the families the date of the marriage was fixed. The happy girl Sia was all set to change her life completely for Raj.

And the day arrived when both exchanged vows and promised to love each other forever. Sia shifted her base to Raj's hometown, left her job to be with the dream man of her life. Her settling time was difficult in Raj's home as the culture of both the families was entirely different, but she tried her best and started living happily with her husband. Raj loved her and that's all what she wants, they got blessed with two loving children. Sia was happy in her life but somewhere she always felt that something is missing in her life. Even a minor argument with Raj disturbed her for days. She couldn't understand why such emotions are hitting her badly deep within. " Did she only dreamt of being a happy wife to someone", no doubt this was the only advice she was being given- BE A GOOD WIFE. Is this dream sufficient to spend her entire life. Sia started questioning her dignity and failed to express her emotions she started feeling depressed and lonely after 10 years of marriage. " Hidden emotions can come out anytime". That was her decision to leave her career at the time of marriage, no one forced her, no one questioned her either. So now after why so long she feels lonely.

We cannot stop our emotions but we definitely should know how to play with them.

You should live for yourself first, you should do what makes you happy. If you feel something is not going right, talk to your loved ones and share your feelings. Do not let the burden of loneliness get heavy on your soul. Be a good wife, a good mother but all before that be a person you want to be. Do not loose hope, all problems can be sorted with communication. Make yourself independent and its not only financial independence. its a complete independence from dependency on anyone. Be strong and courageous, do not give the control of your life to someone else.

"Womens are like tea bags they show their best strong color when dipped in hot water (difficult situation). Do not let your emotions go on a roller coaster ride, think and stand strong.

"Your Loved Ones Need You".

Friday, August 16, 2019


Ananya please give me a glass of water, Raj her husband said. Its 6 am in morning and Ananya is in her dreams and suddenly alarm buzzes and she wakes up.  And the morning ritual starts with a  glass of water for husband, a cup of tea for herself and a bottle of milk for her daughter. Ananya gets her daughter ready for school and Raj drops her.

Morning ritual is the toughest time for mothers, so much tantrums to handle.

She prepared breakfast and lunch for Raj and see off Raj for office and quickly finishes all her chores and don't want to get late for the most important meeting of the day which she daily conducts with the most important person. This part of the day keeps her energetic for full day and she cherish this moment the most. Its 12'0Clock and time to leave, Ananya took a water bottle, car keys and lock the door. Someone special daily wait for her at this time to meet with love, warmth and smile. This special someone is one with whom Ananya laugh with, dream with and love with all her heart.  She daily reach 15 minutes before, she loves to wait for this special someone who is a gift for her from God.  And its the time to meet the loveable soul with charming smile and deep eyes. This is the time to pick up her lovely daughter from school. The wait for both of them gets over they hugged each other share some kisses and continue the drive to home. This daily drive is very special for both of them, they share their day and talk endlessly with no break.

"Daughter's love is the best love, its a gift from God that you will have a friend forever in life"

Thursday, August 8, 2019

And She Passed Away- Leaving The Not So Beautiful World Behind!

It was a Saturday morning when Kanika gets a call from her mother in law speaking in a grief voice telling her that Radha passed away. Radha, Kanika's sister-in-law young sister. She was barely 33 year old, had 4 year old beautiful daughter. Kanika was shocked and started crying and remembering her from all the beginning when she was introduced to her by her sister in law. Kanika and Radha shared same age. What a beautiful person she was, a confident lady with a sparkling smile and most importantly she was a fighter. She was suffering from cancer and was fighting with it with the strong attitude. Her daughter was her strength but god did not want this, Kanika was crying inconsolably questioning the justice of God. How he could do so much injustice to a small child who dint even realize that her mother will never come back. Does God even exists.

People say it's your karma of previous life but we are not even aware that what we have done wrong and punishment is announced. No questions no mercy. Radha has gone and quickly she must be in another life but what she has left behind is heartbreaking. Kanika is in grief and always question " Does God Exists"?

" Life is so unpredictable" . You never know which is your last breath.  We sometimes crib so much about small things, money, relatives that we forget to live a happy life.There are people who are suffering so much but still happy and there are people who have everything but still unhappy and negative. We don't know what destiny has written for us. No control no questions. When the time will come to leave, no answer will be given for "why me". No power no money can give the extra breath to say goodbye to your loved ones. "MONEY CANNOT BUY LIFE"

Tuesday, August 6, 2019


I have found love again and that's not with my husband. My new lover loves me unconditionally, and I am the most beautiful person in the eyes of this new person in my life. I thank god every time for sending this clean soul to me for whom I am the world. I no more wait for my husband to share my day news, I have my new lover with me. We both enjoy each others company and are always together. We share lot of things, we don't like going out quite often so we enjoy our cozy meals at home watching our favorite movies. We both have lot of similarities which makes us even more compatible and happy in life. We are the best travel and shopping partners.This happiness of being the world to someone, I have never felt before.

We fight also but our deep love makes every fight loveable, we both are in our happiest space of life. We treasure each moment of the day, even the really bad days sometimes because what an honor it is that almighty has chose me to be someone special for this person. The warmth of this relation is beyond words and I don't want anyone to come between both of us. This is the love I have been wanting in my life for so long. I feel lucky to find love again and I want this committed relation for life long. I am not scared to share this relation with the world, everyone should know how it feels to find the love again.

Gotta Go, time to feed new love of my life My Lovely Daughter :):)

Tuesday, July 30, 2019

The secret to a happy marriage remains a secret

The secret to a happy marriage remains a secret. Me and my husband are married for 8 years and still our search is on, search to figure out the secret of happy marriage lol. It is rightly said that Marriages are made in heaven but so is thunder and lightening. When husband is happy, wife becomes sad and when wife is happy husband become curious. The gist is both cannot see each other happy. In first year of marriage husband speaks and wife listen, second year is for wife to speak and thereafter husband wife both speaks and neighbors listen. A happy marriage is a combination of two imperfect players who refuse to give up on each other and irritate for life.

"One pretty lady was relaxing with a glass of wine with her husband near, and she says I love you so much I don't know how I could ever live without you. Happy husband curiously ask is that you or the wine talking, to which she replied Its me talking to the wine". So this is a happy marriage where both stays together no matter what. They are happy, they are sad, they are irritating but are together for life.

Keeping funny part aside, as there is no secret and everything is open so follow some quick tips to keep the spark alive

1. Respect each other

2. Trust each other

3. Do not take your spouse for granted

4. Communicate and travel together

5. Give each other some space.

6. Don't bring ego issue. It can spoil the relation to worse

7. Say Sorry


9. Share responsibilities. Gender Equality is the latest trend.

You have got the one best person who you can irritate and annoy for the rest of your life so enjoy and keep the life of the pure relation alive.

"Cheers to the good life".

Disclaimer- I am happily married with the best person, the views mentioned are quirky for the interest of the readers.

Monday, July 29, 2019


Nowadays the perfect saying apt for modern couples is "contraceptive pills and condoms are the 2nd and 3rd measures of controlling population, and the first one being school fees", funny but true. The exorbitant fees of schools leads the couples to opt for one child policy.

Education is the basic right and private schools definitely knows how to play with this card . The time is not far when schools will demand a portion in the will for providing education to the child:)  

Private schools charge for anything and everything. It is an organized business setup wherein parents have to rigidly follow the manual. Even a pencil has to be bought from school approved vendors. Hence parents decide to give best to one child and also stop from giving the best gift of life to only child, a sibling.

Then there are other factors also- the rising cost of living, the lack of child care support and the urge to go back to work made to stop with one child.

Time has changed and both parents are working, so the family completes at one child. This is also true that number of children doesn't bring any change, its all about how happy you are within as a parent.

"Cheers to all parents who are happy with their one kid, two kids and so on".

Thursday, July 25, 2019



Children are the source of energy in the house, they bring happiness and joy in family. Almost every mom falls in category of yelling mom at some point of time. We want to make parenting so perfect that we often forget how hard steps we are taking on the kids to make it possible. We don't want to get judged by the society, hence get over strict and stressed. Is it even required?

Perfect mother is a myth and its perfectly fine if your child is not as good as other child. Pressurising and yelling will take them nowhere and they will start following the same behavioral gestures for others. Parents are the role model of child and they religiously follow their parents. This is a fact that children adapt wrong things easily and take years to adapt good habits.

The victims of our furious nature are our own kids. They cry, scream and still come to us for our love and hugs and then we feel ashamed and guilty of our nature towards them.

Our uncontrolled aggression makes them stubborn, anger has no purpose and it can never solve the issue. It puts full stop on communication between child and mom.

When kids throw tantrums and doesn't listen it means they are upset about something and they don't know how to express. So being the mom, its our responsibility to figure it out. Be quiet and calm and wait for the child to calm down, that's the only solution. If the child is screaming and you start yelling, the situation gets worse. Punishment is not the solution, explanation is. My 3.5 year old daughter always say please explain me and not shout at me :).

I also completely understand the fact that mothers are stressed and frustrated full day and then children become the soft target. Children follow the behavior they are raised with, don't make them follow your aggressive nature for no big reason. Children need love and affection and someone who can hear them with no judging. they are the purest souls on earth. I know its easy said than done but with simple gestures we can win them. After rejecting many wombs, they have come in yours so think there is a reason to it.

They are too small to understand us in the exact way we want. so take it easy. the kids who need most of the love will ask for it in the best unloving ways.

"Anybody can become angry- that is easy, but to be angry with the right person and to the right degree and at the right time and for the right purpose and in the right way that is not within everybody's power and is not easy". Children definitely are not the right person to show your anger. 

To raise a happy and a calm child, the mother needs to be calm and happy. So be a healthy and a happy mom.

Few tips to handle an angry child-

1. Make stories to follow your instructions. Like there is  tree outside and a sleeping baba lives on that tree, he checks on the children who are not sleeping so lets sleep or he will come and catch you.

2. Distract the child by talking about entirely different topic. Like whenever my daughter gets angry, I always start discussing about her upcoming birthday and she forgets our conflict issue and join me in the discussion. Try it.

3. Count- general rule says 1-10 but here we are talking about our kids so count 1-20

4. Take a deep breath and free yourself from the place for few minutes. Adding anger to anger only adds fuel to the fire.


Sunday, July 21, 2019


All Biotique Products are ayurvedic and I simply love them. Today I have come up with two amazing Biotique product called Bio Papaya Revitalizing Tan Removal Scrub and Bio Fruit Whitening, Depigmentation & Tan Removal Face Pack.

Bio Papaya Revitalizing Tan Removal Scrub

How to use? Massage on wet face with fingertips. Avoid eye area, remove with water or damp washcloth
 The scrub is thick so use water everytime to make it soft on skin, it smells of Papaya which I think people who don’t like papaya cannot use it. The after effect of using this product are very good. The skin feels smooth and refresh . I am glad I picked this scrub for my skin, it leaves the skin clear and tan free.
  1. Removes fresh tan easily
  2. Price is easy on pocket
  3. Relives dull appearance
Little more efforts can be done on packaging of the product.
I will definitely recommend buying this product
Cost- 75gm for Rs 199/-

Bio Fruit Whitening, Depigmentation & Tan Removal Face Pack

How to use? Apply evenly over cleansed skin, leave for 10-15 minutes. Rinse with water or damp washcloth.
Since the texture is thin, it does not take long to dry.  The face pack washes easily with no extra rubbing required. Upon washing, skin feels soft and supple. It gives a fresh feel to the face.


  1. Makes skin soft and supple
  2. Price is easy on pocket
  3. Relives dull appearance and gives a fresh feel


Little more efforts can be done on packaging of the product.
I will definitely recommend buying this product.Cost- 75gm for Rs 199/-